Hey Guys!!!! It has been so so long!!!! I hope you all are still here with me! If you guys follow me on instagram you would know I recently got married, so things have been crazy!!! But I am back now though!!! Yay and I welcome myself in with the lovely Tuke Morgan who tells us about her natural hair!!!!
Introduce yourself!
Hello Everyone, my name is Adetuke Morgan. I’m a 22 year old Nigerian Lady and I’m currently serving my country as an Assistant Class Teacher at a Primary school.
How and when did you start embracing your curls or have you always enjoyed/embraced your curls?
I’ve always loved my curls but had to texturise my hair at the age of 9 for my cousin’s wedding; she wanted us flower girls to rock the same hairstyle. My hair was still pretty curly though and when I did cornrows to school, the tips twirled in a really cute way. I always wondered what my natural hair would look like as most of my cousins on my mum’s side rocked their afros. Plus, my hair started to become flat and lacked texture after a while. I BC’d in August 2011, got heat damage in December of that year and BC’d again in August 2012. Sometimes I get frustrated with my hair, like when a twist out/bantu knot doesn’t come out right. However, 90% of the time I embrace my curls.
What is your current routine/regimen?
So, I don’t follow it strictly but if I was good all the time I would do the following:
- Co-wash once a week with my Simple/Giovanni Smooth as silk/Herbal Essences Hello Hydration conditioner
- Deep condition once a month with some Organic Root stimulator Deep Conditioning Mayonnaise
- Protein treatment once a month with the product at the Natural Hair Salon in my estate (2 week interval between this and the DC)
- Shampoo twice a month with my Simple/Giovanni Smooth as silk/Herbal Essences Hello Hydration/Clarifying shampoo
- LOC method before I cornrow at night
- There are some tweaks being made to my routine though, I’ve never tried an Apple Cider Vinegar rinse or used Rhassoul clay or done a protein treatment with food stuff like avocado and eggs, will do so soon to see if they make a difference.
So from start to finish, on a kinky curly day, what’s your process?
I typically sleep with my hair in cornrows, except for those days when I’m extremely tired/feeling lazy. I take out the cornrows and finger comb/fluff my hair, massage the edges with Jamaican Black Castor Oil and pack my hair in a puff or use 2 side combs so it’s in a fro hawk.
Do you have a hair stylist?
Not really but there is a Natural Hair Salon near my house that I go to, it’s called KL’s Beauty Bar http://www.klsnaturals.com/. The owner blogs at http://klsnaturals.blogspot.co.uk/
Do you dye your hair? (If yes, do you have it done at the salon or do you do it yourself? What color is it?)
No, I never have, might try henna one day though.
What are your go to hairstyles to wear with your curls?
An Afro puff is my go to hairstyle. My alternative go-tos are fro hawks and just leaving my fro out.
What are your staple products and tools?
What reaction did you get when you first decided to go natural?
How do you deal with negative remarks to your hair?
I got a LOT of negative remarks and unnecessary questions to be honest.
- Why is your hair like this
- Why did you cut your hair
- When will you make your hair i.e. braids/weave
- Your hair looks so hard
- Are you trying to be a Rasta, etc
At the beginning of my Natural Hair Journey, I used to take these comment personally, get upset or offended. Now, I just brush off the comments as I know the person speaking doesn’t know better. Plus I get wayyyy more positive comments now, people want to touch my hair, they wonder why it’s soo soft and I nail the Afrocentric look pretty well . I’ve inspired a few people to go natural and people around me know I’m Natural and proud.
Did you big chop or transition and for how long? If you’ve always been natural, did you ever have any kinky hair girl insecurities?
The last time I used a relaxer was in December 2010. I transitioned for a few months then BC’d in August 2011. I got heat Damage in December 2011, I went to a salon and they straightened my hair with a hot comb without using a heat protectant. I was so shocked when the hair at the front of my hair didn’t revert to it’s original curl pattern. I rocked protective styles for a number of months and then BC’d again in August 2012.
What do you do at nighttime for your hair?
I typically do between 4 and 6 cornrows then go to bed with my satin bonnet. I use the LOC method
Liquid – spray bottle which has a mix of water, glycerine, leave in conditioner, extra virgin olive oil and coconut oil
Oil –Extra Virgin Olive Oil
Cream – Cecee’s Curls Whipped Shea Butter
What is the best thing about being Natural?
The versatility of it and how creative I can be with my hairstyles. I had a shoot with a photographer friend of mine in April. He was shocked with all the different styles I came up with.
http://www.tukesquest.blogspot.co.uk/2014/05/ankara-inspired.html
http://linguini.com.ng/journal/detuke-morgan-studio-session/
How do you think having natural hair impacts your everyday life?
There is a sense of camaraderie when I meet other Natural Haired Ladies. It’s a great conversation starter. A lot of creatives (Left Brained People) have natural hair and I’ve met some really cool people because we bonded over our hair.
What’s your message to other kinky curly ladies?
Rock your hair and rock it well.
Embrace your curls
When you get tired of styling your fro, get a protective style done so you don’t yield into the temptation of relaxing it.
Accessories are your best friend.
Make up helps too especially when rocking a twa: A red lip can boost your confidence in soo many ways, Eyebrows frame your face, when shaped your face is properly defined and looks more feminine.
Dress for your shape, I used to be a tomboy but over the years I’ve become more girly. I try not to wear baggy clothes when my fro is out so I look ladylike
Love Yourself and Be Confident
Beauty is Skin Deep so if your self esteem is low, it will show.
Tell us about your life and what you are up to!
Well, I’m an Economist by Degree but I have many interests,
I play the Saxophone and have been playing it for 5 years, check out my youtube page for videos
I like to write hence why the answers to some of the questions are pretty lengthy
I like to model, not runway, but for photo shoots like all the ones with the Linguini Watermark, he’s one of my favourite photographers
I would like to be in adverts, people tend to love my smile, they think I should commercialise it
I Love children and I teach at the moment. NYSC is a mandatory service year that Nigerian Graduates have to go through before they start their career. It’s like a bridge between school life and the real world, and corpers are supposed to serve at Schools, Ministries or a Local Government.
I blog too, so if you like my writing style, check out my blog and show me some love, I always reply comments btw, links to my social media pages are down below. J
Kindly provide the links to any social media accounts (Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Youtube, etc) that you would like to share.
Twitter- @tukemorgan https://twitter.com/TukeMorgan
Instagram- @tukemorgan
Blog – http://www.tukesquest.blogspot.com/
Youtube – https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHGYmIXyTaaEbgx1StaABVA/videos
Thanks for the feature Rachel J